I had a boyfriend for one year and because he was acting strange on facebook not wantibg to post pictures with me and change his relationsip status, I started thinking maybe he had someone else.
So when he was not home, I looked in his e-mail and found that he was talking to many girls and also, one conversation in ehich he was telling his friend that he had slept with 3 girls that year.
I got really mad and sent a mass message to everyone in his list ( he had many girls in the list) saying that he is a cheater and saying bad but real things about him like he washed once every 3 days and that he has holes in his underwear.
Of course we broke up and he was really mad about the message, but he denied he slept with other girls than
and he told me he said that to his friend just to look cool to him.
After 4 months without speaking, we met and he told me again that he is sorry for talking to that girls and he sweared he just talked to them for fun and he never cheated on me.
Because I really loved him, after long talks I decided to give him another chance.
Now here is the problem : many friends that received that message started to hate me, telling him I was crazy and that he should never be with me again. He has many girl friends that hated me even before.
And now he doesnt want to tell anybody that we're back again cause he said that everybody will think he's a fool for doing this.
We're in a long distance relationship but when we meet we just meet at his apartment and doesnt take me out. And I dont like this at all. It was hard for me too to tell my family that I got back together with a guy that might have cheated on me, but I did it and told them its my choice and if i'll regret it later, well, I will take responsability.
I posted this message a week ago or so and I still dont know what to do.
He calls me every day trying to convince me to accept what he wants. He says that when he'll come to my town we will meet every day, just not when his friends are around. And that I shouldnt he doesnt get it why I insist so much to be at his bday party or to be with him on New Years Eve party. Cause he will just get drunk and smoke weed.
Its been an awful week for me, cant stop thinking about him and about this. I really tired to explIn to him th at he shouldnt care that much what his friends thought about him, but he says no,no,no I cant tell them. When we will leave the country it will be easier and we would start a new life.
I really love him but I dont know if I should just accept being hidden for so long. I know we will just spend all of our time in his apartment and when he would like to have fun, he will call his friends and tell me to go home
So Im sorry to post this again, I just didnt get over the situation. I feel bad all day and all night.What do you think I should do in the end?
Thank you so much.