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    Break

    If a girl asks for a break because they lost their feelings/spark and you give them no contact for a while.

    What is the best and worse thing to say to them if you meet up with them a week or two later?

    If you still like them should you agree with the break, should you tell them how much you like them, should you tell them how much you want them, should you do nothing, other?

    What does a girl want to hear?

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    She want you to give her space and go do your own thing.
    Better give her that.

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    as in break up?

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    A break is just that Zaffo, its half of a break up. If she said her feelings aren't there anymore, she is just letting you down easy.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    If she text to say that she meet up with me after a week and promises to and says that she won't fob me off the doesn't contact me. Should I just leave it.

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    If she asks for the break, she should be the one to contact you once her time is up. She should initiate all contact, and the conversation. You don't do much but listen.

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    Ok thanks. I will go with that. I had left it with her to contact me. She had said she promised some night this week. We have been together 8 months, been on a few weekends away and a wedding together. I would like to think that she will contact me - but the week is near over.

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