Am I paranoid??? about facebook

[surfhb]

This thread is like Poop and Pee mixed together

[HeartIsAching]

I think when you made an issue about his commenting on the girl in her bikini - especially when you did it months after he removed it, he realized that had stuck in your mind, and he thinks you're a paranoid git, in other words, insecure.

It's a tossup no whether he's hiding something or just afraid of upsetting you.

But what it boils down to is this:

You don't trust him. Without trust you've got jack-shit, so you might as well walk.

[rafterman]

This thread is like Poop and Pee mixed together

Yes thats what you get when you put the words "Face" and "Book" together.

[MAXRacer]

I think when you made an issue about his commenting on the girl in her bikini - especially when you did it months after he removed it, he realized that had stuck in your mind, and he thinks you're a paranoid git, in other words, insecure.

It's a tossup no whether he's hiding something or just afraid of upsetting you.

But what it boils down to is this:

You don't trust him. Without trust you've got jack-shit, so you might as well walk.

The boyfriend may or may not have the intention of doing more than flirting. But I think his actions are disrespectful. I understand where Melinda is coming from. He should have abstain from commenting at all rather than comment on it and then delete it. It is almost as if he is trying to hide it from her.

[rafterman]

Anyways, I stand by my original opinion. Facebook is not anonymous. Flirting on Fb is the same as flirting in person. Whether some people find flirting while in a relationship is acceptable or not/serious or not is another story.

The most logical solution is to get rid of FB. Sorry about the swear word....logical

[sadie_genie]

The most logical solution is to get rid of FB. Sorry about the swear word....logical

Right. Then, he can flirt offline where it really counts. *roll eyes*

[rafterman]

Right. Then, he can flirt offline where it really counts. *roll eyes*

I never commented on flirting. FB causes alot af problems well beyond flirting... Dont you think? *rolls eyes also* If you think FB is a good thing, I feel sorry for you.....Shweetheart

[sadie_genie]

I never commented on flirting. FB causes alot af problems well beyond flirting... Dont you think? *rolls eyes also* If you think FB is a good thing, I feel sorry for you.....Shweetheart

Well. This thread is basically about the OP's paranoia about her boyfriend's flirting on FB. The thread is not a discussion about the merits of FB in general. Who is really living in lalaland, hmmm?

And I never commented on whether I think FB is a good thing or not. So, I don't know where you got that from.

[rafterman]

Well. This thread is basically about the OP's paranoia about her boyfriend's flirting on FB in general. The thread is not a discussion about the merits of FB. Who is really living in lalaland, hmmm?

And I never commented on whether I think FB is a good thing or not. So, I don't know where you got that from.

Yes, Its like this. Let me dumb it down for you.....

Problem- paranoid
Cause- FaceBook

[sadie_genie]

No, its:

flirtatious bf+ facebook= problem

I would imagine you to be one of those people who blame Marilyn Mason for the Columbine Shooting.

Anyways, got to sleep.

[rafterman]

And I never commented on whether I think FB is a good thing or not. So, I don't know where you got that from.

Oh really? Your post #16 tells me a different story.......Your argument isnt holding alot of water.

[rafterman]

No, its:

facebook= problem

Thanks, glad you agree....finally

[sadie_genie]

Thanks, glad you agree....finally

Facebook is the vehicle. The flirtatious boyfriend is the driver. If the OP finds that her bf is cheating on her through stored texts on his phone, we wouldn't blame the phone for causing problems, do we?

Anyways, you are either an idiot or a troll so I am not going to continue this conversation.

[rafterman]

Facebook is the vehicle.

Yes a lemon so ditch it.........How do we know what the B/F is like in real life? You can be anyone you want on FB. Which proves my point, its fake sh!t,

[rafterman]

Anyways, you are either an idiot or a troll so I am not going to continue this conversation.

I hope that dummy of yours is on a string so you can retrieve it alot easier.....
Your such a kid. LOL