The Other Girl?

[hipsterchic]

So my boyfriend and i got into an argument a couple days ago. It lasted about 2 days or so, and we barely talked (we made things up already btw) but the thing is... he admitted to me that he saw another girl's breasts while we weren't talking. This isn't the first time he's spoken to other girls and done things behind my back. All I want to know is if he's worth it. He always apologizes and says "you know i do stupid things when i'm mad at you" I love him and all, but how much is too much? And has he reached it already?

[Mathias]

In what context did he see this? Porn? Strip club? Making out?

[hipsterchic]

it was online, he was webcamming with a girl he knew personally

[hipsterchic]

he has also kissed another girl in the past

[Mathias]

Why are you still with him?

[hipsterchic]

Well because I can't stand the idea of losing him. I know he messes up sometimes, but idk. It's complicated. It's like I know he doesn't mean to hurt me on purpose. He's been there for me through all my hardships and no matter how mad he gets at me, when we talk about it in person... he just can't seem to stay mad. Now I just don't know if I can trust him the next time we get into another fight.

[TheWiseOracle]

Hipsterchic, losing him is a probability and you should not be scared of that. I know you love him because you still forgive him even though the things he did are so offensive on your side. If you feel that trust has been already lost, I think you should let go of him . Still, the most important thing to do is to listen to your HEART. It is because the HEART that started it could end it in a very nice way without hurting someone...

[bulrush]

If you think he went too far, then he went too far. Eventually you will get tired of his games, and figure out there are better men out there who won't hurt you like this.

[oldskool83]

nor every guy has to go out and look at some other girls tits or even talk to another girl just cuz they got in an argument. id go find one of those types.

[Hayden10]

I am really sorry this happened to you. It's hard still loving someone who acts like this. But I think that you need to put some distance between the two of you and then make a decision. What if you did that when you two were apart? I am sure that he would have a fit. Your bf sounds like an a*****. '

I mean what is the next move after touching her boob going to be?