hey guys i have a male friend who claims he is madly in love with me and how he doesnt want to lose me but then he will disappear and not talk to me for like 3 months at a time and then randomly shows up again claiming he loves me. he lives in a different province than i do and so i flew down to visit him and he never showed up or called me. months later he messages me again saying hes sorry and that he will come visit me. so i was waiting for him to come and ofcourse as usual he didnt show up or call lol. he just messaged me again last night saying he loves me and doesnt want to lose me and blah blah blah.....this has been going on for a year and a half now. is he just playing mind games or do some guys just think they are doing nothing wrong lol?