First of all, I just want to say i'm really sorry for making this long. I hope you can take the time to read this and offer your opinions/advice.
Me and my ex girlfriend were together for 3 yrs. I broke it off with her ( she texted me 1 minute later saying 'we're over') due to too many small arguments leading to big ones and we had multiple breakups before and got back together but obviously it didn't work. However, the most we went without contact was about 1 month max and we would get back together 90% of the time being me getting us back together regardless of who broke up with who.
We've been broken up for 6 months now (by far the longest time away from each other). About 3 weeks after we broke up she blocked me on fb. We're not friends on there and she could only see my basic profile picture and vice versa. About 3 months ago, I noticed she had unblocked me on fb and 2 days later blocked me again. I heard nothing until 2 months ago where she emailed me and I noticed she unblocked me on fb again. I was really surprised and it was more or less small talk, her asking how I'm doing, how I've been etc. We exchanged about 3-4 emails before I told her I had to go as I was heading out. It was nice, she seemed happy and friendly telling me she's been busy etc. Anyway, about 2 weeks later it was my b-day and I didn't receive any happy birthday message etc. 3 weeks later she decides to block me on fb again :S. I was quite upset by it so I emailed her asking why she did that as I thought everything was cool now. All she said was 'I don't know'. I asked her how she was feeling and she said 'hmm, I'm not too bad I suppose'. Quite a bit different to the first time she contacted me where she seemed upbeat and happy. At this point it was my religious celebration so early in the next morning she emailed me saying 'happy celebration' or something along those lines. Why did she ignore my b-day but send me a happy celebration email? I didn't hear a peep from her until only 6 days ago where she unblocked me on fb again and sent me an email saying 'hey why have you put (university name) on your fb, thought we both agreed not to'. When we were together we had family problems so we never put our uni's on fb incase of families finding out but I really don't see how that matters 6 months after breaking up. I ignored her email and 2 days later she poked me on fb. I ignored that too and a day later she messages me on fb saying the exact same thing as she did in her email. I ignored that also but what I did was put my settings to friends only so now she cant see the uni name, that was 2 days ago and I haven't heard anything from her.
I'm really confused here. Thanks in advance to any help and advice given. Sorry again if it was too long.