sharing a single bed

[emily25]

guys,

would you ever share a single bed with a female friend? (Both of you are single).

if you are willing, does it mean you like her more than just a friend?

[Endlessagony]

Yeah I'd say if you're both single and share a bed that he likes you as more than a friend.

[Cerby]

Yep, unless you have no other choice, ie the hotel only had 1 room left with a single bed . . . and even then I'd sleep on the floor.

[emily25]

so he has feelings for me?
but we have known each other for years...

we are seeing each other again soon, should i suggest to sleep on the floor to save confusion?

[vashti]

guys,

would you ever share a single bed with a female friend? (Both of you are single).

if you are willing, does it mean you like her more than just a friend?

Are you kidding? He wants in your pants. Duh.

[devonbrown]

so he has feelings for me?
but we have known each other for years...

we are seeing each other again soon, should i suggest to sleep on the floor to save confusion?

I know how you can figure it out - ask him! Why be afraid of communication? Maybe he thinks of you like a sister and doesn't have any sexual feelings for you. Or maybe he fancies you. Unless he talks in his sleep, you will not be able to find out unless you ask him! Just tell him that you want to make sure both of you are on the same page and want to avoid confusion.

Good luck.

[emily25]

I guess i am afraid as i dont want it to be awkward and it to ruin our friendship...

[bulrush]

Emily25, you need to tell him you don't want to date him because it would ruin your friendship. Just mention it in passing. See what he says. Maybe he does like you and he never got the message you were not interested. Not saying you didn't try to send a message, but guys aren't wired to understand subtle messages women often send.

[emily25]

the thing is i dont know if he likes me more than a friend, dont want to sound stupid if he just shares a single bed with me in just a "friendly" way...