Female Advice

[Capricorn lady]

Hello everyone,*
I'm new to this site, and just need some advice

I am 23 years old lady having relationship problems and a life crisis*
I have only been in one long term relationship*With a male, which was more of a friendship at the time, when ever he tried to kiss me i could feel a 'sicky' feeling at the bottom on my stumuche, i never really understood 'why'...nerves I suppose.


But since then, I haven't found match.
When I go out, "dress to impress" I don't even feel attracted to someone who could look like the spitting image of 'Orlando Bloom' lol. I do tend to look female variety.*
Then a couple of months ago I've been having strange dreams about ladies, and kissing ladies, and when I think about it I feel quite at ease with the idea....
*I don't know weather my concience is telling me something, or every straight female has these thoughts every now and then.
I just feel I'm in limbo-land, and it's been playing on my mind for awhile.

Could anyone shed some light on my problem *
Manny thanks x

[Bo]

That might mean you are a lesbian or bi. Go out and kiss a girl and then you'll know.

[Capricorn lady]

Hi Bo
Thank you for your thoughts,
I had a funny feeling 'someone was going to say that!
.......there's my other problem*
I'm a very shy kind of person and reserved,still living at home, and all my friends have moved away.
So it's not like I can try practising on a friends.
when I get near to a girl I tend to freeze and my imaginary barrier goes up
So what would you suggest how I should randomly go about kissing a girl?
And where?*
What if she is straight and finds it offensive. :s

Manny thanks x

[Bo]

Hi Bo
Thank you for your thoughts,
I had a funny feeling 'someone was going to say that!
.......there's my other problem*
I'm a very shy kind of person and reserved,still living at home, and all my friends have moved away.
So it's not like I can try practising on a friends.
when I get near to a girl I tend to freeze and my imaginary barrier goes up
So what would you suggest how I should randomly go about kissing a girl?
And where?*
What if she is straight and finds it offensive. :s

Manny thanks x

No no no, I don't mean just go kissing anyone. How old are you? If your of age, I'd suggest going to a gay bar...you'll find a lot of lesbians there willing to kiss...especially after a couple drinks.