What is creepy?

[TheSingleGuy]

I've asked a few of the women I've dated in the past, exactly what is "creepy"?

One girl I was with in the sandwich shop was complaining that while we were eating, this "creepy" guy kept staring at her. She said his staring was "creepy".

Another girl, who had an upstairs apartment complained that a "creepy" guy she was being pursued by called to say "I'm actually down stairs from your apartment in the restaurant". She was "creeped out" by this. But then she went on to say that if I had done the EXACT same thing, it wouldn't have been "creepy".

Is it safe to say that there really isn't any such thing as creepy behavior, but, instead, creepy behavior is pursuing any woman who doesn't want to be pursued by you? is that a safe statement?

[Mathias]

Depends on the girl.

For some people, creepy is any sort of interest from a person you have no interest in. For others, the definition is a bit more narrow.

Either way, I wouldn't be too concerned about it.