If a guy you like tells you to find him a girl....

[roxthefox]

...What do you say to him?

[searock]

It depends... give us more info.

[broken6391]

Does he know you like him?

[roxthefox]

Well, he's from England, I'm from Canada. We used to flirt around last year and I'm pretty sure he knew I was into him. He got back with his ex and we didn't speak after that. They broke up a few months ago and he messaged me sometime last week asking for information about Canada as he'd like to move there, particularly to my city. He was asking about the job prospects and then went on to say... 'Also, find me a single girl lol'

[searock]

He might have been referring to you, if you flirted in the past... does he know you're single?

[roxthefox]

Yes, I believe he knows. But I was in London in January and he didn't seem too keen on meeting up. So now I don't really know if I should be 'playing it hard' or how I should go about responding.

[Evo1114]

Your reply:

'Oh, that won't be hard, I'M SINGLE!'

[searock]

I agree, be explicit and see how he reacts. It's not like you were ever close friends or anything, so you've got nothing to lose.

[roxthefox]

I wish I had the guts to say that lol! Well I would have, but when I talked to him back in Jan, he pretty much indirectly indicated that he thought I stalked him. I don't want to give the impression that I'm obsessed... even if I am

[elny1]

I also agree. 'Oh, that won't be hard, I'M SINGLE!' is a great approach to this, coming from a guy. Be flirty and fun. Not desperate and lovey dovey!