Originally Posted by
loganelder
Well if youre significant others phone is next to you and they receives a text message that says " I had a really good time..." from someone of the opposite sex I am 100% positive anyone would do the same thing I did.
The second time I went through it was the same deal, she got a text from her ex boyfriend and it said "I love you..." I opened it and found out they had been doing this for awhile.
The reason I am giving her a chance is because at this point of our relationship we were having a hard time and neither of us were particularly happy so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I told her if anything like this happens again we are finished.
It's noth that I am not reading your posts, it's just that I am not going to do whatever it is someone online tells me to do. I came on he because I wanted to get some insight from a non biased party. I am not surprised by the responses I've gotten. In fact I've told my girlfriend about menposting on her and she knew what the responses were going to be as well.
At first glance my situation seems black and white, but there are actually many different aspects of our relationship that warrant some of this behavior.
I am going over to her house tonight to deal with this once and forall.
I really do appreciate all the advice you have given me and Ive read and thought about every reply so far so thank you.