Help! I think I hurt my husband

[luckylady]

This is kind of embarrassing, but I wanted to get someone's impartial opinion on it. A couple of weeks ago, I was roughhousing with my husband, and I accidentally kicked him in the balls. I felt terrible, but in the end we had a good laugh about it, so I didn't think anything of it. Ever since then, though, it seems like his orgasms are very weak. There is maybe half as much semen as before (sorry if this TMI!) and it just kind of dribbles out. He used to be able to shoot it really far. It's a pretty drastic difference. Is it possible I broke his balls? He has not complained of any pain or anything. I don't really know how to talk to him about it without embarrassing him. How should I handle this? Thanks for your help.

[Incognito]

If you did injure him it wasn't his balls it was probably his prostate or some of the surrounding muscle since the testicles don't have anything to do with the actual act of ejaculation. Give it a few more sessions to see if he starts shooting again. If he doesn't maybe you should ask you/his doctor. If you ask him why he doesn't shoot anymore, before having a reason and possible resolution from a medical professional, he may become self conscious about it.

[bulrush]

I suspect something is pinching his urethra, possibly downstream from the prostate. Maybe swelling from the injury. If he complains about it, he should see a doctor. I suppose scar tissue might form to interfere with the flow of things. How is his urine flow? Does he go more often? Is the flow slower than before the injury?

[Incognito]

How freakin hard did you kick him? And did you get a solid kick, or did you graze him? If you just grazed him I might be a bit more inclined to agree with bulbrush. If you got a solid, body hit, I think it is more likely to be prostatic damage/swelling or surrounding muscle damage/inflammation.

[Wakeup]

Whats strange here (to me) is that instead of being open and straightforward with your husband that he may be suffereing an injury, you're more concerned about embarassing him so you say nothing???? Why not just say something like " hey have you noticed since I sacked you, you haven't been shooting as far?" Then suggest he get a proper check up of the boys to make sure all is well.

It's likely that he's just not using his kegals as much, who knows but why take a chance? Did you ask him if it hurts when he cums?

[smackie9]

This is kind of embarrassing, but I wanted to get someone's impartial opinion on it. A couple of weeks ago, I was roughhousing with my husband, and I accidentally kicked him in the balls. I felt terrible, but in the end we had a good laugh about it, so I didn't think anything of it. Ever since then, though, it seems like his orgasms are very weak. There is maybe half as much semen as before (sorry if this TMI!) and it just kind of dribbles out. He used to be able to shoot it really far. It's a pretty drastic difference. Is it possible I broke his balls? He has not complained of any pain or anything. I don't really know how to talk to him about it without embarrassing him. How should I handle this? Thanks for your help.

He is your husband....you should be able to discuss anything with him. Strangers can't tell you what is really wrong with him....who knows, maybe he is masturbating more than usual or did it not long before you had sex. There's a possiblity you are just making a mountain out of a mole hill.

[luckylady]

Thanks guys for your responses. I did talk to him tonight and he actually said that he was feeling humiliated by his inability to shoot, like it made him less of a man. I said that was silly because it's not something he can really control, but he just said I wouldn't understand. I guess I could see how he might associate his ability to shoot with his sexual performance, especially since we sometimes watch adult films together where the guys are always shooting like crazy. So maybe he felt like he didn't "measure up." Anyway, I asked him about the pee thing and he said he was stopping and starting a lot. He never thought to link that with getting kicked in the balls, but I said he should go to the doctor, and he agreed to make an appointment in the morning. I'll let you know how it turns out!

[bloodtippedrose]

If my boyfriend is really turned on (like with aggressive sex) or if theres long forplay involved, the more he "shoots," if its just ho-hum sex then it just kinda dribbles out. I dont know if this is the same for other guys..
Also if his cum is clear I know he jerked off earlier and if its thick and dribbley I know he hasnt came in a while. So telling lol

[IndiReloaded]

I doubt you did anything permanent. Mbe some swelling or bruising like bulrush said. Give it at least a month. Unless he is having problems urinating, in which case I would send him to the medico asap.

*bump for Vash*

[IndiReloaded]

Thanks guys for your responses. I did talk to him tonight and he actually said that he was feeling humiliated by his inability to shoot, like it made him less of a man. I said that was silly because it's not something he can really control, but he just said I wouldn't understand. I guess I could see how he might associate his ability to shoot with his sexual performance, especially since we sometimes watch adult films together where the guys are always shooting like crazy. So maybe he felt like he didn't "measure up." Anyway, I asked him about the pee thing and he said he was stopping and starting a lot. He never thought to link that with getting kicked in the balls, but I said he should go to the doctor, and he agreed to make an appointment in the morning. I'll let you know how it turns out!

I posted before seeing this. Good, let us know. Hope he's okay.

[xdxsyyb]

Is the flow slower than before the injury?

[Markiemark]

he will be okay

[KingZ]

That doesn't make sense.

The intensity/volume of his ejaculation isn't going to be affected by whether or not you kicked him in the balls, since it's controlled by his prostate and his PC muscle.

In a month it'll be over with.

[romantic_guy]

I hope you are not comparing the amount of ejaculate to what you wee on porn. That is often faked so it looks like the guy is producing gallons of cum. The average amount of ejaculate is about a teaspoon.