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    How do you move onto sex and stuff

    I'm just wondering if there is a good way to make a progress in your relationship sex wise, since this is my first relation. So any tips how I can move on to the next base and eventually sex?

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    I would really like some tips

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    I'm not really sure what you're asking. If she's ready to have sex with you, it should be kind of obvious

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    What I'm asking is how I move from kissing and cuddling to something more ehm sexual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Way2Roux View Post
    it should be kind of obvious
    Not at all.
    You can't buy love, but you pay heavily for it.

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    Heavy petting. Touching of private areas. Taking clothes off. And if she says it's alright, then you're good to go!

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    You say ... "Hey Baby"




    And then lick her face, and maybe stick your tongue in your ear, whilst getting your hand tangled in her panties.
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    Personally, I feel more comfortable if I talk about sex before making my moves. I hope it makes my partner comfortable too.
    You can't buy love, but you pay heavily for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Way2Roux View Post
    I'm not really sure what you're asking. If she's ready to have sex with you, it should be kind of obvious
    Wrong. The vast majority of women don't have the "lady balls" to make the first move.

    Basically, before the first date or right after it, I call the lady and tell her that sex is important to me. I don't want a one-night stand, but I need to know if we're ever going to have sex. I get right to the point, and weed out the people who are not compatible with me. I don't waste my time with asexual women. I see fewer women, but the women I do see are really a lot of fun. It works for me.
    Last edited by bulrush; 03-09-11 at 01:54 AM.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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