She possibly as the same concerns, this is why you never sleep with someone in the first weeks as you are still getting to know each other,ask if she has ever had one nighter she may lie but listen to your intution.Some girls hate Q&A but for me its a must to actually try and find out how this person thinks.You learn so much their body language, the tells they have when they lie ie not meeting your eyes etc. Nothing in life is 100% SAFE you can only protect yourself and as for oral well if your gut says dont go there then dont. Females often ask a lot of questions in a new relationship, its not because they are nosy all the time its so they dont make the same mistakes as that ex and also its a way of seeing if your rebound.If she doesnt want to answer questions then look at the whole picture not a case of she's lying somethings are too painful to tell, say to her lets play Q&Aits nice to have the guy concerned enough to find out how she thinks it shows a deeper interest then just the usual trying to get in her knickers.Q&A to some will seem in intrusive but if you think about it we all do it in the first weeks we just dont ask we watch to see what they like makes them happy/sad.
its basic's of a relationship.
If i hadnt done this i wouldnt have seen the changes in my partner when he was trying to keep his affair secret for a month,so i wasnt completely K'O when i had it confirmed.
Last edited by Kyrina; 19-08-11 at 05:43 PM.
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