I would say dress sexy for him and tell him this is about him and proceed to give him a bath then massage and gently kissing each part your hands have passed over, its a version of tantric sex without penatration so that its just not sex, use your imagination and keep as much from the full on as possible because if you have him totally relaxed and melting in your hands he will remember that more than the best sex that came after if you want, anyone can buy or cook etc but only you are able to make him feel this way in your private room.Lock your inabitions away and use your woman gifts to take all his stress.
A mistake is always forgivable, rarely excusable and always unacceptable.
Robert Fripp