Sorry you're hurting... but:
we are never getting back together and to move on.
we are never getting back together and to move on.
we are never getting back together and to move on.
we are never getting back together and to move on.
Read that over and over and it might help you to accept that you and he are:
never getting back together and to move on.
Respect his wishes and leave him alone. If he changes his mind because he misses you then he'll be the first to let you know however don't count on him contacting you. Your goal should be to heal from this as quickly as possible so you're at the stage of indifference... particularily since you work with him. Accepting quickly that it's done will help you move to indifference much quicker.
Last edited by Wakeup; 07-08-11 at 04:00 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion