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Thread: How low does a person have to be to ignore someone?

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    How low does a person have to be to ignore someone?

    Hi,

    So I didnt date this guy but we fooled around and hung out multiple times. We talked quite a bit and actually he told me he enjoyed my company. anyway, I had to leave for school for a few months and he didn't msg me like he said he would. I tried talking to him when I got home and he said he needed to sort out his life problems. He wanted to be just friends with me, so I agreed and we hung out again. He told me about his ex who caused him problems and how now that is why he wants to be single because he doesnt want the stress in his life. We hung out once more and made out...I knew what he had said but i really felt like we had a connection so I tried talking to him about maybe starting to see each other and if it became too much we could stop... Anyway, he told me he would never have feelings for him and he only fooled around with me because he was horny. This was 2 months ago...I saw him tonight at the movies. His friend walked past me first and waved to me...later the guy walked past me and ignored me. At the end of the movie he stood right behind me and I waved...he looked around like he was trying to avoid me. Is it just me or does a person have to be really low to not wave to someone they were once intimate with? We had conversations too...like it just wasnt a physical thing. Why would he do that?

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    Initially he wanted sex, Your abscence has caused him to lose interest. If he has head issues dont pressure him. But at the moment he's giving you the cold shoulder.

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    We had conversations too...like it just wasnt a physical thing. Why would he do that?
    just because you had "conversations" it doesn't mean it was more than a physical thing. It was what it was and now it's over and he doesn't care to continue any further "conversations" or anything else with you.

    To hell with him. Leave him to the center of his universe.. that being HIMSELF. That's all he cares about.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakeup View Post
    just because you had "conversations" it doesn't mean it was more than a physical thing. It was what it was and now it's over and he doesn't care to continue any further "conversations" or anything else with you.

    To hell with him. Leave him to the center of his universe.. that being HIMSELF. That's all he cares about.
    Haha you're right. For years we had this cute little thing going on. He would come into my place of work and try to have a conversation with me. my co-workers all thought he was into me and I started to believe it too. i started talking to him online and it took me 2 months to work up the nerve to ask him to hang out...and then he tells me he just wanted me for my body...after we had already fooled around. we would talk for hours before...what a jerk.

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