does he love it like i do

[jezzabel]

hi

I've been with my boyfriend for a while and i'm not certain if he really loves making love with me. he doesn't talk about it really. I just go by how he is with me. He's mostly really wants to and knows what to do and how to do things that really make me want him. Even if i don't feel like it he always does things that make me really want to, he whispers and does this thing where he breathes around my neck, and other things, it's amazing. how do i know if he loves it as much as i do.

[Cerby]

You ask him? Do you have a reason to believe otherwise?

[jezzabel]

hi

not really. Other than he's mostly chilled out about it, not like me. it seems like he can keep a lid on it, i wish i could. I have had a couple of boyfriends before him and it wasn't like this with them. My bf knows exactly what to do, he knows how, when, everything.. The only thing i've noticed is that when i get like that he does it more and more, it's as if he likes that i react this way.

[Wakeup]

How old are you?

[jezzabel]

hi
i'm almost 20

[HeartIsAching]

Have you tried talking to him about it?!

That'd be my first suggestion. Guessing games are a good way to screw up a relationship.

[Wakeup]

I think you're young and you don't know how to read actions. I'd imagine that if he keeps making love to you, then it would logically follow that he loves it as much as you do. However: If you need verbal assurance then have a nice and loving conversation with him about love making and if he's enjoying it as much as you are.

The only thing i've noticed is that when i get like that he does it more and more, it's as if he likes that i react this way.

I think most good lovers get turned on nicely when they see that they are satisfying their partner. I suspect that's why (or at least one of the reasons why) you want to know if he's liking it as much as you are. ;o)


Am I wrong in assuming that he's older and more experienced than you are?

[HeartIsAching]

Is there an echo in here?

[jezzabel]

hi

my boyfriend is older than me he's 26.

[Wakeup]

Is there an echo in here?

Hahah.. I deleted one of them, HIA.

my boyfriend is older than me he's 26.

Yea, I thought as much. He's likely had a few more partners than you have and has learned how to please. Enjoy and quit worrying I say. ;o) He'll guide you in how to please him.