Just Another Guy: When you've been in a committed, exclusive relationship with a girl you love, lets talk then. I have a feeling you'll understand better what ALLLLL the women in this thread is trying to convey to you and to the Opening Poster who, like the rest of us would be, is concerned about where her bf's priorities lay.
There is obviously a sexual attraction between the two of them and I don't care who says differently when you're having continuous sex with someone, some form of bond developes and that type of bond should be reserved for OP and her boyfriend. He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too.
Unfortunately I don't think he values the oP like she values him or he'd back off with the ex **** buddy in fear of losing his gf. Of course if he knows his girlfriend is a door mat and will accept any shit he throws her way, then he has no fear of her leaving and will take advantage of that fact.
Last edited by Wakeup; 19-07-11 at 05:26 AM.
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