it's not a replacement

[dragonflygirl]

K guys, I'm putting myself WAY OUT THERE in hopes of getting some sincere responses.

I am a 34 year old female, seperated from her second husband. I have never ( until 3 weeks ago ) owned a vibrator, and frankly am highly uneducated on things like size and gadgets. My ex and I were on a reconciliation trial, and he asked to see it. He has now flipped out because it's " bigger than him" and he feels like I"ve replaced him, and there's no hope for us.

Here's the kicker. This is the guy who had a girlfriend 2 weeks after I moved out, and has been flopping back and forth between the 2 of us for 3 months now ( ya.... I know.... I am letting that part happen, but he's the father of my children, and I like to think we can work it out )

SO my question is this:
Why would someone who is f****** someone else FREAK OUT becuase I am f****** a rubber chew toy? Seriously? Is it me? or him? that is screwed in the head.

[Daisylove]

It makes him feel inadequate is my guess. I know you have kids together but he is seriously disrespecting you I think if you completely finish with him he will come to his senses. In fact Im sure you deserve a much better person in your life

[leoben]

Guys can just have irrational thoughts about anything else that gives their woman pleasure. He probably thinks he can push you around on this issue since he's been pushing you around when it comes to the other woman.

[Katmeow85]

Exactly...when I use a vibrator my bf got a bit off with me. Stopped doing it for him and he uses porn I get a bit off about it and he's like no I'm not giving it up. Men!!

[redmagnum]

Any guy who gets mad that you are using a "toy" is crazy............

[HeartIsAching]

Damn, seriously?!

I had an ex GF that bought a 10" silicone dildo for when I wasn't around... I'm fairly well hung, but not THAT well hung! She flattered the hell outta me with it... told me she had been shopping for something that was about the same size as me, and that looked about right in the store, LOL.

It was fun using it on her once in a while.

[redmagnum]

That would be like a girl getting jealous because I tell her I masturbate with a pocket pussy..........." I think of you when I use it baby!"