My g/f is a sex fiend since I proposed.

[Junket]

...or you choose to not indulge your porn star fantasy and just enjoy her vagina...and the rest of her.

Who are you to talk? You're like 50 years old and have not managed to have a single sustainable healthy relationship. Stop projecting your failed "romantic fantasy" on other people.

And Indi, you're a horrible person.

[CAM]

Who are you to talk? You're like 50 years old and have not managed to have a single sustainable healthy relationship. Stop projecting your failed "romantic fantasy" on other people.

And Indi, you're a horrible person.

LOL Well, this thread is about you...not about me.

[Junket]

LOL Well, this thread is about you...not about me.

Anyway, I'd rather be a woman and all of her special woman parts, than to do something violent to her butt. I know that others won't agree, but that's just my way of thinking.

Should read "I'd rather be with a woman..." typo, sorry

It wouldn't be an option that enters my mind, so I couldn't really answer the question. The reason I don't consider it is because the best part of sex with a woman is that it is with a woman. I'm 100% hetero.

The most important thing to me is not my orgasm, which I guess could be had in several ways. If one is only looking for any old orgasm, then by all means...go **** your best buddy, the 18 year old boy next door, the dog, whatever...particularly if you have divorced yourself from all notions of good and evil, right and wrong, moral and immoral, natural and unnatural.

The most important thing is that I'm smelling and tasting and feeling all of her.

All of her body intended for insertions...her anus is meant for excretions...and is built accordingly. I consider anal sex unnatural and immoral... I am allowed to hold an opinion based on a set of values. The Liberals haven't taken that freedom away (yet).

Smoking: I don't smoke.
Drink: Minimal (still you)
Drugs: Never (still you)
Premarital sex: Yes, but monogamously. (you again still) As far as HIV goes, it is primarily transmitted by IV drug users, gays, and bisexuals (who like anal sex indiscriminately)...I remember the article about AIDS in Discover magazine in 1985...they said (in a non PC way, god forbid) that AIDS would largely be the price one paid for anal sex. That reality hasn't changed very much. Blood transfusions are fairly safe in the West but elsewhere not because their protocols are ****ed up.

So, it is not just about my morals.

Well, I like Indi. She's a great woman. The world needs more people like her.

LOL I don't want to control anyone. I'm a Social Darwinist and I believe in minimalist government. I want you to suffer the consequences (moral, economic, or otherwise) or reap the profits (see earlier paranthetical) of your choices. If it weren't for the fact that ill informed opinions about HIV, and numerous other things, often leads to massive expenditures of taxpayer money....economically, I wouldn't give a hoot in Hell what you thought. In terms of my own moral code, I would still be capable of assessing your choices on their moral merits, as I see them...and at some level, we all share a basic moral code or we are not civilised creatures.

Say again?

[doppelgaenger]

Lol ^^^^

I asked him this a few pages ago.

[CAM]

Sure, I'm going to have an opinion and respond accordingly. And, if challenged, I will respond accordingly. That's called human dialogue.

Look, we all share our choices here because we want to hear what other people think. We want feedback. Do we kick, scream and rationalize or offer further explanation? Sure.

If you don't want any feedback, I wouild recommend not sharing. Do you really want people to do nothing but butter your ego and tell you what you want to hear?

[Incognito]

I'm really happy for you Fras. Enjoy it while it lasts because it will come to an end. In time you'll be left with another human being staring you in the face and you'll wonder "Where is that sex fiend that used to wear the ring you're wearing?".

[CAM]

I'm really happy for you Fras. Enjoy it while it lasts because it will come to an end. In time you'll be left with another human being staring you in the face and you'll wonder "Where is that sex fiend that used to wear the ring you're wearing?".

It would be more dazzling if you were both virgins who first discovered sex together post-engagement or post-marriage. In today's world, most peopl(probably you included) have been with lots of other partners. So, how excited are we supposed to get when you tell us that she's turned into a 'sex fiend?' It's like the late Elizabeth Taylor wearing virginal white at her 4th wedding.

Like I said, if don't want comments, then don't bring up extraneous details. Why not just be excited that she likes you. If a guy really loved a woman, he certainly wouldn't tell the whole world that she was a sex fiend and that he was angling for some anal sex.

You're right...I am not married. I mentioned that I loved a woman once...and while it didn't work out, did I ever once offer the intimate details? No. When you really care about someone, you wouldn't want to debase them.

[Junket]

Sure, I'm going to have an opinion and respond accordingly. And, if challenged, I will respond accordingly. That's called human dialogue.

Look, we all share our choices here because we want to hear what other people think. We want feedback. Do we kick, scream and rationalize or offer further explanation? Sure.

If you don't want any feedback, I wouild recommend not sharing. Do you really want people to do nothing but butter your ego and tell you what you want to hear?

Faggot, you came into my happy thread and challenged me, turned the whole thread about YOU, now you're playing defensive. I was sharing my rejoice with some people that don't have access to the hidden forum, and yeah, right now, I want people to tell me what I want to here.

You think I just signed up yesterday? Just because you suck at relationships despite your silly ideals, is no reason to bring everyone else down. And I have a higher quality relationship than you'll ever have, or ever had with your many girlfriends. You've exposed yourself to way more sexually transmitted diseases than me so shut the f*ck up.

I am dazzling, now bend over bitch.

[vashti]

Muslims think it is an abomination. So do most practicisng Christians and Jews. Even atheistic Chinese communists think it is wrong.

I don't know about Muslims and Christians, but even the most orthodox of Jewish people don't think this way, unless it is between 2 men.

CAM - sorry, but I would rather be "debased" by a man that loves me than to have vaginal sex with someone whose mind is anywhere other than in the moment.

[Petit Papillon]

If it goes about Christians, we are against premarital sex at all ,if we already talk about religions...

[KingZ]

I'm happy for you, Fras. All of the elders with fu​cking stupid ideals (CAM) will die off soon enough, and the world will be better.

For the record, I think you should bang the shit out of her, with or without the condom. Get it out of your system. A UTI won't kill you.

Next time I'm pounding the shit out of some drunken college girl's asshole, I'll make her call me Frasbee.

[IndiReloaded]

LOL. Hey Cam, you're an Elder!

Anyway Fras, I'm only horrible to those I like. Indifference is the endpoint for those I don't.

[Charlie Boy II]

The thing that worries me a little bit, is that from what you've posted in the past your fiance isn't into anal sex at all.

So you've been effectively nagging her into painful and degrading sexual acts.

[doppelgaenger]

The thing that worries me a little bit, is that from what you've posted in the past she isn't into anal sex at all.

So you've been effectively nagging her into painful and degrading sexual acts.

Shouldn't he get something in return for degrading engagement acts?

BTW, you should remove her name from your post.

[Junket]

The thing that worries me a little bit, is that from what you've posted in the past Amy isn't into anal sex at all.

So you've been effectively nagging her into painful and degrading sexual acts.

I never really effectively verbally "nagged" her with the exception of presenting the idea in the first place over a year ago (2 years??). I guess she understands it's just one of my quirks and she entertains the thought regularly in a playful and suggestive manner, though it's not something actually performed except every once in a long while.

EDIT: AHEM, and since we were both virgins when we started having sex, there is a little pressure on both sides to be somewhat versatile in the bedroom. There's no going elsewhere to get it out of the system and coming back. We've enjoyed all kinds of sex with each other and it's only gotten better.