We seem to have a few virgins here that are worried about their lack of sex when it comes to settling down with someone. So I don't get RSI from repeating myself, here's my advice.
You are not alone. There are other people, of both genders, all over the planet that value their virtue. Often they do for religious reasons but not always.
FIND A PARTNER WHO SHARES YOUR VALUES AND YOUR "PERFORMANCE" WON'T MATTER.
Sex is not the be all and end all for everyone and there are some people out there who just don't know how to enjoy it and consider it simply an act for procreation.
Try not to stress about something you are choosing not to change and focus on finding someone like you.
For the non virgins, what do you think of my advice?