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    what should i say?

    It’s been 2 days since my date stopped replying me after I threw messages that were demanding of him. We knew each other for 3 weeks plus now so its at a very early stage. I was at fault but he could have replied after repeated attempts from my side. My plan is to wait for 2 more days before dropping him a message. But what should i type in the message? “So are things over for us?” / “Can I know your decision regarding us?” / Or what else would be better and would save me some pride too?!

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    If you don't hear from him and he refuses to reply to anything you have sent so far....your are done so there is no point in asking.

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    Be polite, but blunt. Don't try to play games or you'll just make it worse.

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    Sounds like something you should talk about instead of texting.

    Why be demanding? Say "I would like...", or "How are we doing..."

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    If the relationship was that young, it's probably safe to say that it wasn't that serious. I say don't worry yourself with it and find yourself someone new to spend your time with! It's cliche, but there really is plenty of other fish in the see. And some of them will even message you back

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    You could always text and say you realize you've been a bit full on/demanding lately and you're sorry... that if you haven't scared him away it would be nice to see him again?

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    Old post guys....

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    he's not that into you

    you're done. move on

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    ur scaring the guy! he wants his space for now... thats my advice

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