Some of you are familiar with my story from a few months ago.
I've been with my gf for just over 4 combined months (she took some space after month 1 as she didn't think it was fair to date while she was getting over her ex), we're both mid-20s, it has been a slow moving relationship. We had held back on sex for a bit at her request, she was tired of being in relationships that were just about sex and wanted something real - or so I was lead to believe.
Fast forward to Wednesday last week, we're getting pretty hot on her couch, I was ready to go, she said it was late and she didn't want to do this and get no sleep for work, so she suggested the weekend instead.
Last night things get messed up. She comes over after work to pick up a few bucks that I owe her, barely says hello, little peck of a kiss, tells me she might not be able to see me on Saturday (even though we have big date plans, plus possibly finally making the physical connection) then says she needs to get up early and leaves, barely a goodbye.
I find out that she actually went over a friends after (at least that is what I was told by her) and when I asked her why she canceled our date, she told me she thought it was next week (which was a lie, she was the one who scheduled it not 2 days ago). I sent her a couple of more texts to find out why she wasn't telling the truth, all were ignored. When I tried to call her this morning to confront, she ignored my call, I left a VM, and she sent a text back saying she was super busy and might call me later. She simply will not talk to me right now.
Up until now things have been great, this just suddenly came out of nowhere!
We haven't ended anything, but I need some thoughts.