Being single does not suit me at all.
I recently met a man at work who I clicked with pretty quickly. He was outgoing and funny, and we spent a little while sparring and I ended up giving him my number. I didn't think it was a big deal, and dealt with his texts regularly and reciprocated his friendliness. I was not attracted to him, and tried lightly rejecting him a couple of times (rebuffing sexual comments, and so on).
He got a little creepy last night and was wanting to know all the details of all my past relationships (personal details that I neglected to share). I slept on it, thinking it would seem less creepy in the morning, but he was making some very explicit sexual comments and I rebuked him and told him not to contact me any more. He was calling me more than five or six times a day.
I have to work with this guy in close proximity. He makes me very uncomfortable and he is still being very persistent and violent in his messages to me (which I am ignoring). Will he get over it? Is there anything I can do to keep the situation from getting out of hand?
Also, I am also peripherally concerned that I am just overreacting. I have just gotten out of a relationship that ended pretty explosively and am a little shy of all aggressive displays. Is this just normal post-rejection behavior that is just going to play itself out?
Thanks....