Hubby is sending a female friend private messages on Facebook, I know because I have his password. He deletes the messages but doesn't realise they're still available in an archive. They have exchanged 40 messages over 7 weeks (but hey who's counting!). They've now swapped mobile numbers and have arranged to meet for lunch. I really don't mind him having female friends, I just don't understand why he's so secretive. He's never mentioned this woman even in passing to me. What do you guys think?