Originally Posted by
thisgirl
thank you. i haven't spoken to him in a couple of weeks its hard but i'm over him. he told to my face i'm nothing to him. so there you have it. i guess i just like being treated like shit. so i deserve it. thanks for not holding back.
Well, he's a classless jerk for actually saying this to you. So move on w/your head high. Some day, he'll get stuck on some woman who will shred him, possibly one who won't have anything to do with him because of this type of behaviour. In fact, there's a good chance its already happened hence his attitude. All you can do is learn to recognize and avoid the type.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh