"Strongly coerced" sex dreams.

[Junket]

In other words, rape dreams.

I didn't want to be inflammatory with the title and trigger some poor rape victim who might google the topic.

Anybody else ever have them, or am I the only one?

I had one this morning, it's the only kind of dream I'm not comfortable telling my girlfriend about.

[doppelgaenger]

I've had dreams where I was raping someone a couple times. This is something I would never do in real life. Don't worry about telling your GF, she doesn't have to know.

[Pakistani]

In other words, rape dreams.

I didn't want to be inflammatory with the title and trigger some poor rape victim who might google the topic.

Anybody else ever have them, or am I the only one?

I had one this morning, it's the only kind of dream I'm not comfortable telling my girlfriend about.

I am sorry you got raped in your dreams

[Junket]

I am sorry you got raped in your dreams

Who said I got raped?

I've had dreams where I was raping someone a couple times. This is something I would never do in real life. Don't worry about telling your GF, she doesn't have to know.

I've had quite a few of these dreams, some of which turn into wet dreams.

I've raped vaginally and anally.

I even raped a hot zombie once, so I guess that counts as necrophilia on some level. (I've mentioned before that zombies are often in my dreams for some reason)

What I've gathered from them though is they usually do something to provoke/attack me, and then that's how I retaliate.

[Gratedwasabi]

I've had them. Same thing, more of getting attacked and then fighting back with sex. Never like screaming/crying, though, they've always been more of a fantasy thing (ie her enjoying it/just rough sex.)

But I can't recall many of my dreams.

[Nicholas_V]

Who said I got raped?



I even raped a hot zombie once, so I guess that counts as necrophilia on some level. (I've mentioned before that zombies are often in my dreams for some reason)

Hmm - did this start after spending all that money on the engagement ring or before? lol

[qwertz]

I am sorry you got raped in your dreams

Sorry, I laughed!

[Junket]

Hmm - did this start after spending all that money on the engagement ring or before? lol

I've always had them.

And yea, I don't recall any of the women fighting back all that much.

Then again, this last one had about 3 inches of some kind of fork stuck into her shoulder (but wasn't bleeding), I can't even remember what she did to piss me off.

[IndiReloaded]

Why don't you just act out this fantasy, in a controlled way. Lots of women seem to enjoy being on the receiving end of this, obviously not actual rape but the feeling of being overpowered. Guys like it too. This isn't a BFD, Fras, IMO.

[Pakistani]

stop worrying, its not like you raped an elephant's ass

[Nicholas_V]

Then again, this last one had about 3 inches of some kind of fork stuck into her shoulder (but wasn't bleeding), I can't even remember what she did to piss me off.

Perhaps she wouldn't stay still?

[doppelgaenger]

Why don't you just act out this fantasy, in a controlled way. Lots of women seem to enjoy being on the receiving end of this, obviously not actual rape but the feeling of being overpowered. Guys like it too. This isn't a BFD, Fras, IMO.

Yeah, Frasbee, just yell "surprise!" and put it in her butt.

[Junket]

stop worrying, its not like you raped an elephant's ass

Who said I was worrying?

Don't you have a black penis to gag on?

[Incognito]

Who said I was worrying?

Don't you have a black penis to gag on?

Don't tell me that is mard. If you are mard I hope you suck a big black one and choke to death on the chocolately load. If you aren't then disregard...

Anyway, I've never had rape fantasies/dreams, but rape is more about control than pleasure. Fras, the women that you raped... did you know them? If so are they people who you either cannot control or people who you want to control? Is there anything going on in your life that you wish you had more control over? Also the zombie reoccurrence is quite interesting, maybe you could elaborate or start another thread about it?

[Junket]

No, I never know the women, and they're always different people.

There's always things in life we want to control that we can't, and there's nothing particularly significant in my life as is to attribute that to.

I've had some horrific dreams. Many that involved being submerged in water filled with dangerous creatures. I've been killed, and have killed, often brutally.

This isn't every night, most nights I don't recall any dreams, especially if I don't get to sleep in.