Hello,
So, I'm not sure what to think about this (or namely, my reaction to it.)
The girl I've been dating, I guess about ten dates so far, is wonderful. Beautiful, I enjoy being around her, talking to her, and she's just a generally wonderful person. I love spending time with her. Our chemistry is fantastic. There are two little things that I don't think should bother me much that, simply, ARE.
One. She hates public displays of affection. Even a quick kiss. I find it annoying that I have to make sure no one is around if I want to kiss her. I'm a very hands on/affectionate guy and it just bothers me!
Two. Attention. She lavishes me with attention when we're together.. but when we're not? I'm lucky to get a text or two (EXTREMELY brief ones) between dates. No phone calls, ever. I know it's jut because she's independent and has nothing to do with her feelings for me, but it bothers me. I like to chat, especially with the few people I actually ENJOY talking to. So it bums me out that she just doesn't like to chat with me outside of our dates.
How silly am I for letting those two things bother me? It's REALLY starting to. She's away for the weekend and I know if I don't text her I might get a text that says "Hope you're having a great weekend!" But nothing else. And very possibly not even that.