i know people can't say a definate yes or no to this thread. i'm going no contact with my ex, he's contacted me twice last week,(after just 2 weeks of being apart) i didn't respond but i havent heard from him since so i can't help but think, well, what if it REALLY is the end? is he likely to contact me again? or am i just going through the normal grieving period when a relationship ends i.e denial, anger, ooooh i miss them (i'm there now!) i feel very vunerable and lonely. I won't contact him, but i keep thinking..........what if he sleeps with someone else then it REALLY would be it, and it would be my fault because i ended it. My head is spinning around with thoughts. I do so miss him, but do recognise i was being controlled by him. I cannot win!!