Advice on an affair

[oldskool83]

glad u see the light.

[deepika_16]

Think what you want to do, whether you want to stay with your husband for the sake of your daughter or you want to stay with the person you like. You and your husband are staying together only for your daughter so that she doesn't come to know about the broken relationship of yours but for how long are you going to hide. Your daughter is growing and one day she will come to know about your relationship. If you think there is no way to mend your relationship then it is better to break it. The person you like if he is willing to accept you with your daughter then move on in your life.

[MM80]

So I told him everything this weekend. It's over. I got the courage to do what is right and we can now both move forward with our lives. This is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, never thought I could hurt somebody so much and do the thing's I've done but I have to accept that I can't take them back and move on. I was able to finally breath for the first time in a long time and let everything out. We talked for a long time and realized it was both of our faults for letting a dead relationship go on for so long without ending it when it needed to be. I shouldn't have ever had the affair either without first ending the relationship and doing it the right way as well, I've learned a lot from this for sure and am a stronger person because of it. Our daughter will always have a mom and dad who love her, nothing can ever change that.

[smackie9]

Life wouldn't be worth living if we didn't takes risks...but when we take risks, you can hurt others along the way, but it's all about healing and getting past the hurt, learn and grow, and be ready for all the new things ahead you....this may have been challenging for you, but the most healthiest thing you could ever do for your ex and your child and of course for you. Congrats on taking the first step to a happier life. Best of luck.

[MM80]

Thank you, I appreciate that and you are very right....sometimes it's nice to talk to somebody outside of your life to help you make sense of things