Do they miss us?

**confusius** · 22-05-11, 01:34 AM

We all say we miss them. Do they even miss us?
It's just not fair. She probably talking to her new bf and having fun when I'm here moaning. That's terrible.

**Purrzzzzzz** · 22-05-11, 01:40 AM

Originally Posted by confusius

We all say we miss them. Do they even miss us?
It's just not fair. She probably talking to her new bf and having fun when I'm here moaning. That's terrible.

I KNOWWWW!!! thats whats killing me...

**Hulibuli** · 22-05-11, 01:42 AM

I think not. But I think it's fair, I'm not thinking a much those I've left behind me. :l Just wait for the next bus, hop on and enjoy the ride. Why miss something you've lost when you can focus on the present?

**confusius** · 22-05-11, 01:50 AM

Originally Posted by Hulibuli

I think not. But I think it's fair, I'm not thinking a much those I've left behind me. :l Just wait for the next bus, hop on and enjoy the ride. Why miss something you've lost when you can focus on the present?

When you lost something you are attached to you just don't turn the page and line up for the next bus. I know it doesn't help to moan a lot but at least I think it's a natural process. To fully enjoy the present you need to cope with the past. If you took the wrong turn in the past, the present will have no sense to you until you put in some effort to straighten it.

**Nicholas_V** · 22-05-11, 02:05 AM

some do, some don't. Depends on circumstances that led to breakup I suppose.

**Hulibuli** · 22-05-11, 02:06 AM

Originally Posted by confusius

When you lost something you are attached to you just don't turn the page and line up for the next bus. I know it doesn't help to moan a lot but at least I think it's a natural process. To fully enjoy the present you need to cope with the past. If you took the wrong turn in the past, the present will have no sense to you until you put in some effort to straighten it.

Yeh, of course we should remember the past so we could learn. And true, it's hard first and you should let it out if you're hurt, but not forever.

**DarkHelmet82** · 22-05-11, 02:24 AM

i hope she does... i have no idea tho

**Cinnabella** · 22-05-11, 02:35 AM

No, they don't. And we need to stand up, and do the same!

**DarkHelmet82** · 22-05-11, 02:47 AM

how do u kno cinna.. u cant assume they dont.. and saying it wont make u feel better

**Purrzzzzzz** · 22-05-11, 02:47 AM

Originally Posted by Cinnabella

No, they don't. And we need to stand up, and do the same!

you're right... but HOW????

**DarkHelmet82** · 22-05-11, 02:52 AM

i think mine thinks about me... shes been honest so far about everything.. and my gut is telling me she cares about me.. my gut never lies

**Cinnabella** · 22-05-11, 03:34 AM

Originally Posted by Purrzzzzzz

you're right... but HOW????

I guess you try to think that you were once happy without him in your life, so you can be like that again!

**Cinnabella** · 22-05-11, 03:36 AM

Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82

i think mine thinks about me... shes been honest so far about everything.. and my gut is telling me she cares about me.. my gut never lies

I don't know dark, if they miss us, they wouldn't leave us alone like this, I hope you are not longing to false hopes. Or it might be bad.

**DarkHelmet82** · 22-05-11, 03:41 AM

right but its SELFISH to expect them to talk to us.. at least in my situation.. my ex has ISSUES and she needs to deal with them.. she needs to be happy with herself before she can be happy with ANYONE, including with me.

**Hulibuli** · 22-05-11, 03:45 AM

Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82

i think mine thinks about me... shes been honest so far about everything.. and my gut is telling me she cares about me.. my gut never lies

Then you're the lucky one, my gut lies to me all the time. :l

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