Can't finish when masturbating the normal way

[iCake]

I'm a guy and in my late teens and I have never been able to finish when masturbating the normal way by hand. The only way I can finish is by getting down on my stomach fully clothed on a carpet and kinda grinding "it" against the carpet so it will be friction between my pants and the carpet... Lol, it's hard to explain.

For the most part I haven't cared but now I feel more anxious about this, I realise this is not normal. When I try to masturbate the normal way I can go on forever, it's not enough "friction" and I don't feel very much and eventually I just go soft.

Are there any other guys who also have trouble masturbating the normal way? Maybe this is more common than I think? And if you are a woman what would you think if you're boyfriend could only masturbate this way?

[smackie9]

Believe it of not there are some women out there that do the same thing, like using the arm of the sofa or a pillow. It's completely normal....it's just what stimulates you best.

[CAM]

You might want to take a hiatus. You are probably wearing out your nerve sensation. Try using lube when doing a hand job. Don't beat it to death...take it slow, fondle yourself, etc. Frenetic masturbation will wear it out.

[andy_mc]

Careful there, carpet burns on your dick's not gonna be good.

[iCake]

Careful there, carpet burns on your dick's not gonna be good.

I have my pants aswell as underwear when I'm doing it.

[iCake]

You might want to take a hiatus. You are probably wearing out your nerve sensation. Try using lube when doing a hand job. Don't beat it to death...take it slow, fondle yourself, etc. Frenetic masturbation will wear it out.

I do take hiatuses sometimes for a few days if I'm going for a trip or something. Usually I masturbate maybe 3 times per day on average, not sure if this is normal for a guy my age. Maybe you're right and I'm doing it to often lol... but I'm a guy not a woman. I can't go weeks without getting off lol.

[doppelgaenger]

I'm sure if you just start masturbating the "normal" way, eventually you'll get accustomed to it.

[smackie9]

I do take hiatuses sometimes for a few days if I'm going for a trip or something. Usually I masturbate maybe 3 times per day on average, not sure if this is normal for a guy my age. Maybe you're right and I'm doing it to often lol... but I'm a guy not a woman. I can't go weeks without getting off lol.

You are just fine. There is nothing wrong with you. Too much is too much if you cause pain and can't stop....that is caused by a sever case of OCD.

[CAM]

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[xinn1314]

on the bright side, if u can go on forever.. your partner is surely a lucky one.