List the reasons you have broken up with a boyfriend.

[Bonfire]

Feel free to list all the reasons you have broken up with a boyfriend over, so that many men on this forum can avoid such pitfalls.

[warriormaiden]

Didn't show me enough attention-
Wasn't passionate enough -
Didn't act like he cared -
Became attached way too quickly - (was saying I love you in like, the first month)
Was too gloomy -
Made me feel like a high class prostitute -
Lacked ambition -
Womanizing -
Had racist viewpoints -
Had a problem with Honesty -
Didn't talk to me - (like, I would say there was something wrong with the relationship, and he would just say 'oh? I don't see anything wrong.')
Lacked intelligence -

If I remember anymore, I'll post them.

[Bonfire]

Good stuff... keep them coming

[pisces25]

With my two long-term ones it was just coz we grew apart and both changed (quite young) and I lost interest in sex and saw them more like brothers or friends type relationship.
All the other times I have been dumped

[seganomics]

- Moved away
- Wanted to date someone else
- Kissed another girl at a party
- He wasn't a good kisser (High School)
- Their fingers were too fat and it hurt to hold their hand (I was like in middle for this one lol. He also yelled at his grandma about pokemon all the time so think it was for the best)

I think the only helpful one there is don't kiss girls at parties... and I guess keep those finger lean

[bloodtippedrose]

1st bf breakup:
he CHEATED on me
Bipolar-Happy on the phone one sec, whiny and depressed the next.
lied to me about smoking and drinking
had poor relationship with his family
never worked
mom handed him anything he wanted


2nd boyfriend:
WAY too mushy. Nauseatingly.
made plans for the 'future' way before i was ready
never paid attention to who i was but rather made me out to be who he wanted (called me princess which i hate and didnt even know my fav color or anything)
was disabled (sounds cold-hearted but I didn't want to live off the government my whole life)
never followed through with plans
extremely clingy
Warped view of how ladies should never work and instead be pampered (wtf?)
If anyone flirted or said anything mean he'd be ready to punch their lights out (which i find barbaric)

[Petit Papillon]

Caught him wearing my panties and bra.
He liked Lady Gaga and Backstreet boys .
Was spending 1 hour in bathroom longer than me.
Thought that "Brokeback Mountain" movie was "lovely".
Liked it when I spanked his ass.
He had more cosmetics than me.
He liked to take a bubble bath.


I hope I helped a bit.

[bloodtippedrose]

Caught him wearing my panties and bra.
He liked Lady Gaga and Backstreet boys .
Was spending 1 hour in bathroom longer than me.
Thought that "Brokeback Mountain" movie was "lovely".
Liked it when I spanked his ass.
He had more cosmetics than me.
He liked to take a bubble bath.


I hope I helped a bit.

Holy crap that is a serious case of denial on his part.

[JadenMia]

From the few realtionships i have had..

Too clingy, got upset when i wanted time away from him.
Did everything for me, without even asking. It was nice of him, but too OTT.
Moved way too fast, way too soon. Talking engagement and babies after 5 months.
Acting too distant, didnt really involve me in his life. Didnt feel like we shared a life at all.
Was too angry, freaked out way too often and too stressed out.
Name calling, called me names like sl*t if i even spoke to another man.
Not trusting, had to explain myself if i went anywhere.

[sadie_genie]

His penis was too big

[warriormaiden]

Caught him wearing my panties and bra.
He liked Lady Gaga and Backstreet boys .
Was spending 1 hour in bathroom longer than me.
Thought that "Brokeback Mountain" movie was "lovely".
Liked it when I spanked his ass.
He had more cosmetics than me.
He liked to take a bubble bath.


I hope I helped a bit.

And he came out of the closet soon after, right?

[MrsHis]

One guy literally told me, after dating a yr, that his goal in life was to sleep with lots of different and interesting women. Umm, yeah STD poster child, have fun. lol

One guy was really rude to people like clerks and waitstaff. He was really, really condescending to a particular waitress on about our fourth of fifth date and sent his food back three or four times. I left before dinner was over, and tipped her on my way out.

I broke up with a couple of guys because they were consistently rude to their mothers - it shows a lack of respect for women.

[Petit Papillon]

And he came out of the closet soon after, right?

No, after , he joined skinheads and became very homophobic . That's why I broke up with him. He was verbally aggressive towards gays and it simply disturbed me . Besides he stole my favourite bra , that bastard . That was the second reason.

[lostnconfused22]

His penis was too big

Whats his number?? haha

[doppelgaenger]

No, after , he joined skinheads and became very homophobic . That's why I broke up with him. He was verbally aggressive towards gays and it simply disturbed me . Besides he stole my favourite bra , that bastard . That was the second reason.

Your post was so ridiculous that I thought it was facetious.