Originally Posted by
Boisdevie
It all sounds a bit too programmed to me - you are planning to lose your mutual virginities, he's been trying condoms!!! Have you every heard about the idea of 'the heat of the moment?'
I guess not.
Is it down in your mutual schedules: 8pm Thursday shag for the first time. Gosh, how exciting. So unplanned. BORING
There is no such thing as heat of the moment sex, or if there is, it's really, really rare. When you prepare for a date, don't you think we women shave our legs (and elsewhere) "just in case"? And don't males carry condoms? It's all a passive kind of planning.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?