First off I know I'm going to sound silly and naive and second I tend to rant but I'll try to make this brief.
I play in a local hardcore band and my drummer dated this girl over 3 years ago and they're just friends now, we played a show 2 weeks ago and he brought her and she seemed kind of flirty with me. I was a little drunk so I had the courage to talk to her and stuff, unfortunately she had to leave early to do a college paper. My drummer approached me after and said did you think she was cute? And I said yeah she was, and he's like well she said you're cute and actually cuter than her boyfriend. I was flattered end of story. The next day I get a friend request from her on good ol' facebook but she told me my drummer told her to add me (not sure on the truth on that). She wrote on my wall and just said to let her interview my band one day because she works for a radio station. I couple days later her status went to single, I posted something on my wall she commented on it. A day or 2 later I post another and she comments, then facebook IM's me. Within' 10 minutes she said I should hang out with her one day, gave me her number and asked for mine. I figure maybe I'll text her in a couple days, she texted me the next morning and was like asking how far away I lived, etc. And last night I texted her and she asked me again that we should hang out. Also Monday at practice my drummer said: "she texted me the other night supposedly drunk but I dunno how drunk she really was because she was texting normal and said to tell Josh (me) to come party with her." Again I was like wooo!
Reason I ask is because she seems like a very popular girl and when she texts me she doesn't text much, its more sporadic, girls who I know aren't interested text me more. I feel weird texting her more often because I don't want her to think the wrong thing if she is just an over friendly girl. Today we didn't text at all or facebook chat, but she commented on my status telling me to come over and eat easter candy.
So ladies what do you think I have on my hands? She is very attractive and my drummer told me to hang out with her, and he wouldn't if he cared because I know him well and he's very emotionally open, and has a girlfriend...that was my first worry. Also she's getting my mind off my last ex who I was with for 5 years, so she's helping with that a little.