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    My exboyfriend drunk dialed me.

    Yes, he drunk dialed me for the first time last night at 12am. He said he messed up and lonely. What does it mean? And he is the one broke up with me 2 months ago. Should i hope that i'll come back even though he's dating someone else now.

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    F#ck him! He's with someone else and is messing with your head. It's an easy cop out ringing when drunk and chatting sh1t.

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    sounds like he wanted a booty call

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    Quote Originally Posted by steviej View Post
    F#ck him! He's with someone else and is messing with your head. It's an easy cop out ringing when drunk and chatting sh1t.
    He said he loved me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 View Post
    sounds like he wanted a booty call
    He was in Vegas at that time. Going to see the concert that i bought him the tickets before we broke up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lavender1350 View Post
    He said he loved me.
    What a b@stard. If that were the case he wouldn't be with someone else and he wouldn't tell you when he was drunk.

    He'd had too much to drink, was reminiscing (sp) because he was at the place you got him tickets for and he got a bit emotional. Guessing you've not heard from him since?

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    I wouldnt give it any thought.. its just gonna mess you up.... you DONT need a person like that in your life.
    Last edited by DarkHelmet82; 05-04-11 at 02:11 AM.

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    how long ago did you guys break up?

    if all it takes is one drunk dial to get you to start thinking about getting back together with him then you're going to have a really hard time moving on.

    he was just professing his feelings because he was drunk. he already has another woman in his life too and yet you're STILL thinking about getting back together with him?

    he's made it clear that he's moved on. you're never going to be able to move on with your life until you really accept that its over and let go. keep focusing on why you guys broke up and all the reasons it wouldn't work out even if you got back together. this will make it easier for you to move on.
    Last edited by Kevin K; 05-04-11 at 01:52 AM.
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    find someone else.. this guy is not worth your time or energy...

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    Quote Originally Posted by lavender1350 View Post
    He said he loved me.
    If he respected you, he would have called when he was sober.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kevin K View Post
    how long ago did you guys break up?

    if all it takes is one drunk dial to get you to start thinking about getting back together with him then you're going to have a really hard time moving on.

    he was just professing his feelings because he was drunk. he already has another woman in his life too and yet you're STILL thinking about getting back together with him?

    he's made it clear that he's moved on. you're never going to be able to move on with your life until you really accept that its over and let go. keep focusing on why you guys broke up and all the reasons it wouldn't work out even if you got back together. this will make it easier for you to move on.
    We broke up 2 months ago. He got a new girl 1 week after that. And of course, i've been thinking of getting him back for this 2 months. We've met 4 times after the breakup, and we did intimate things everytime we met. I felt like he's cheating on his new girl with me. I know its bad. But I take it as a sign he wants me back. I'm desperate i know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 View Post
    find someone else.. this guy is not worth your time or energy...
    I cant give up on the one i love easily.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lavender1350 View Post
    I cant give up on the one i love easily.
    well you are gonna have too because he has.. i dont mean to sound like an ahole but i think what you need is the truth and sugarcoating it just make it harder.

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    Quit living in the past. Move forward.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lavender1350 View Post
    He said he loved me.
    all the more reason to belive so
    Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
    Oscar Wilde

    What lies behind us, and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
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