Originally Posted by
ashley89
my ex did the same EXACT thing sweetie. same exact thing. it was a girl we both knew and both used to work with, he always talked shit about this girl, said she had a bad body, was annoying, talked too much, hated working with her, blah blah. I always knew she had a thing for him, I could just tell. he assured me they were "just friends", said she reminded him of his aunt and it grossed him out. well, we broke up and 2 months down the line they're dating. I was really upset when I first found out... shocked, heartbroken, it felt like I was being dumped all over again. but honestly I got a couple good cries out, and now I'm fine! the way I see it is that they chose to date US first, so these people are just 2nd choices and they can have our sloppy seconds. they weren't right for us, and maybe these girls are better for them. I can't even be upset about it anymore, and you shouldn't either! please PM me if you need to talk cause I understand completely