First Love

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Or thinking about the ones you can never have. That is a heartbreaker aswell.

Who got away from you Jane?

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[jane]

I had to move out of the state I used to live in. I met him where I worked. He is such an amazing guy. Unfortunately, he was hung up on a incrediably beautful girl who had a boyfriend. He would sneak out to meet her all the time.
We dated and became friends before this happened. I didn't have alot of time for him so we broke up and he ended up with this girl. I was really dumb. I just thought school was more important then.


It's even harder when you find someone and there is no way of ever being with that person.

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Yeah for sure. How does that saying go? Distance makes the hearts grow fonder... Is that true? If you find out, let me know.

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[leight69]

distance makes the heart grow fonder? welll that depends...on the strength of the relationship before hand...

im personally not a fan of long distance....especially when younger. cause you miss out on so many things, that when you are together ive seen in generally result in fights.

people who are together long distance make up this person emotionally, but in the day to day lives......have no clue.

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Oh, long distance totally sucks. But, when those two people finally meet up, the romance and the emotions are like none other.

Making it work is something else.

But, distance does make the hearts grow fonder. No question.

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[jane]

Does it? Or is it out of sight out of mind? I think it depends on the relationship. I have done the long distance thin. It was horriable. I flet like I couldn't trust him and I was totally in love with him but we couldn't be together. It was so messed up.
THen therewas a time just recently, when I was alone for 6 months and loved it. I had a chance to really get used to me again. It was reviiltilizing. Does that mean I love the person less even thought he wasn't here? No. I just needed the space for awhile.

[sonal_is]

OK, now this is a question I have to ask, a few people have mentioned that their first loves were like 21 etc etc, but is that counting puppy love? I have just come out of a relationship and well I fell all of the hurt etc etc, so Im just wondering, and in fact Im wishing that she isnt my first real love, but I suppose that only time can tell. Im 16- hope that explains a bit more.

[jane]

Good question.. She probaly was very important to you and you most likely "loved her" what is your definition of love?

[Velcrez]

I have never been in love Came close a few times, but wasn't with the person long enough to fall in love. How long dose it take to fall in love?

[jane]

wow, another good question. I guess only time can tell you that one. If you love them you know when the time is ... i guess. It depends mostly on you right?