Man Has Fantasy. Girl Plays Along. Man Runs Away.

[CBinKC]

I was seeing a man who had this school teacher fantasy where I was the teacher and he was the young forbidden lover. I played along one day. I made him watch and learn while satisfied myself. He worked on himself too. It was all fun and good as far as I knew.

He cancels our next date. I don’t hear from him for two weeks where he says “You gave me exactly what I wanted and it freaked me out.”

So my question is for the guys, would you freak out if a woman played along with your fantasy?

[Junket]

Nah, he's just a whack job.

[gsgann22]

Nah, he's just a whack job.

I agree with this post.

[BlackRose]

I'm not a man but I have an idea what might have happened....... People have fantasies. In their fantasies, they have complete control of the environment. Everything goes their way and nothing is ever weird. It's perfect. Now...When you act out a fantasy that involves another person, the control is lost and the fantasy can't always be played out EXACTLY to ones liking. The fantasy almost gets ruined in a way. This is probably what happened to him and now he isn't dealing with it right. He seems a little weird though. He shouldn't be taking this out on you. You gave him what he wanted and he decided it wasn't really what he wanted. That should be it. Avoiding you isn't right. I say move on to a guy who doesn't do things like this in reaction to the little stuff. Just imagine what will happen if something seriously bad happened. It's not worth it and you're better then that.

[III Angie III]

Perhaps he was petrified by what he witnessed.

[BlackRose]

Perhaps he was petrified by what he witnessed.

That wasn't very nice.

[Laguna]

CBinKC - Want to be my teacher?

[CBinKC]

Perhaps he was petrified by what he witnessed.

I didn’t take it as an insult. He was petrified because I was giving him what he wanted and that put pressure on him to perform. But, that’s not the point of this thread. I wanted to know how other guys would feel if a girl played along with their fantasies.

[III Angie III]

It wasn't meant to be an insult therefore, I'm pleased that you didn't perceive it as one.

[III Angie III]

That wasn't very nice.

I'm sorry. I wasn't aware that my posts had to meet your approval, Ms Internet Oprah.

[BlackRose]

I'm sorry. I wasn't aware that my posts had to meet your approval, Ms Internet Oprah.

Wow... Sounds like someone is angry. O_O What did I do? *confused*

[joe schmoe]

Miaaoowww....... I would freak if some of my darker fantasies became a reality but then others (school teacher included) would keep me coming back for more

[CBinKC]

‘Coming back for more’ was my whole motivation for playing along with what seemed like a basic fantasy. Instead, I get two weeks of silence. I knew that made him a nut but I wanted some male perspective in case I was missing something.

[KirstyM]

Sounds kinda weird to me. Cant think of any reason why he'd do that. Any time Ive gone along with a fantasy for a partner it's worked out really well and been totally worthwhile.

[Cybog]

God, what makes this really sad is that it's a weak ass fantasy.

Having you as a teacher and then taking a yardstick and an eraser up the ass - Now for that I could see a reason to freak out.

How exactly do you "act" as a teacher anyhow?

I tell broads all the time what I want, and insist on them telling me how they like it as well. No reason in me/both of us wasting our time while I grind away at your clit like an old piece of sandpaper, or you suck on my dick like your trying to open a walnut with your teeth.

This guy was sexually inexperienced, plain and simple and didn't know what hit em. Even though you slapped em like a slippery fish. BTW, want my number?