If a male partner frequents hookers..

[nymphomaniac]

Should it be alright for his female partner to work as a hooker?

[misombra]

She should at least charge HIM if he's willing to pay.

[nymphomaniac]

She should at least charge HIM if he's willing to pay.

He pays in other ways..

[sadie_genie]

Should it be alright for his female partner to work as a hooker?

Yes, if they do not define their relationship based on physical exclusivity. Most couples however are bounded by this agreement.

[Regnent]

uhm, I just don't see anything meaningfull, or healthy on this..

[misombra]

He pays in other ways..

if it's not cash money it's no deal.

[nymphomaniac]

if it's not cash money it's no deal.

What about free rent and utilities? Including meals, spas, saunas, a sleep in ever day, entertainment and company?

[nymphomaniac]

Yes, if they do not define their relationship based on physical exclusivity. Most couples however are bounded by this agreement.

Yes.. But he sees a difference between these two behaviors whereas I see them as the same thing. He does not like the idea of me doing sex work but thinks it is fine to pay for his own release.

The only difference I see is that he walks away poorer.
I am picky and pull up bad sex, I'm not ****ing fat or ugly men. I don't see how he can judge me while he is perpetuating the sex industry by funding it.

[misombra]

What about free rent and utilities? Including meals, spas, saunas, a sleep in ever day, entertainment and company?

those are just gifts for having to put up with him for more than just sex.

[sadie_genie]

Yes.. But he sees a difference between these two behaviors whereas I see them as the same thing. He does not like the idea of me doing sex work but thinks it is fine to pay for his own release.

The only difference I see is that he walks away poorer.
I am picky and pull up bad sex, I'm not ****ing fat or ugly men. I don't see how he can judge me while he is perpetuating the sex industry by funding it.

Well, then I think you should settle this with a SoBe challenge.

[Petit Papillon]

Help desk, I put this question under judgement : is it a stupid question or not?



My vote: Wtf question is that? If you look into the mirror, do you see a troll in there?

[nymphomaniac]

Help desk, I put this question under judgement : is it a stupid question or not?



My vote: Wtf question is that? If you look into the mirror, do you see a troll in there?

Unfortunately this is a genuine question..

Sorry my problems are too imposing for this forum o_O
If you find it a stupid question, I would appreciate your frank and rational explaination as to why?

[Kaius]

If he frequents providers, then he should understand how unemotional and impersonal the whole experience is. It's purely for sex. He should be okay with you making some money on the side, and also satisfy your sexual needs. Many providers out there enjoy sex a lot, and they often orgasm repeatedly with clients who are good in bed. Some of the most attractive men visit prostitutes because it's too expensive and time consuming to be in a relationship. I mean, these men are hot enough that you would give them free sex, and they pay YOU instead. You can be as selective as you want. Many providers refuse to service yucky men. So please proceed and have fun.

[Ric]

I see no problem with either as long as its clearly talked about and both parties agree on it.

[xxazurexx]

Why the hell do you want someone who visits hookers?

Are there no decent blokes where you come from?