I'm in a bit of a predicament. There was a guy I have been talking to since the start of the year. It started being every day with mention of meeting up but it never actually happening. When we did see each other, it would be at the club that we both sometimes go to. Up until recently, he had been contacting me every day, now he doesn't as much. I assumed he obviously wasn't as interested in me as I in him, he knows I like him, he told me he liked me, I've asked him out not long ago, (round the time he stopped contacting me as much) he said maybe. I haven't initated contact with him since, always him with me.
Anyway, a few days ago, a friend of a friend asked me out, I meeting up with him tomorrow. The first guy has just text me and I don't want to be happy that he's contacting me still, because I hate dating and I'm the type of person who can only be with one person. I've been hurt in the past because of someone not being over their ex so I know how it feels, and wouldn't want to do that to someone else.
Thing is, I am more attracted to the first guy than to the guy I'll be meeting up with tomorrow, but I've waited and waited for things to progress and they haven't yet he still contacts me. The second guy, who I get on with really well but don't think I like him more than a friend, asked me out after meeting once. (However, there have been doubts cast by my friends who have told me some things about him being a bit of a ladies man)
I don't know what to do?