So for exmaple been seeing this guy for 2 years but known him 3 years, its been on and off but he doesn't want a comitment, but he wants to see me more often (he lives 2 and half hours away) and says thing like for example i said to him he had bad memory and he would miss his wedding day so he was like "lol probably and imagine if it was you and i stood u up bcos i forgot" I don't understand what he wants he also asks me what i want for my future etc to whcih i say husband, kids a good job and i said thats ages away yet as i dont have any of that so he said "not that long if u look around you" to which i thought he was suggesting him then a few weeks down the line he says his worried about where i think its going to go?!