He claims to be a virgin!

[chika001]

SO this guy I've been dating for the past 4 months has been with 3 other chicks before me.. but hasnt done much. We havent done much either. We're prolly on second base.

He claims to be a virgin. Well, Im a virgin too.
And we're both 20. He's goodlooking, tall and buff. Plus, he's a very social guy but down to earth and is very cultured.

I trust him to an extent. But is there a way of finding out if he's a virgin or not? Just for my satisfaction!

[HeartIsAching]

No. Why is that important to you?

[dcad]

No.
But if you like him and wan't to be with him why would it really matter?

[smackie9]

There's no way of knowing unless you ask his exes. BUT if you do it could jeopardize your relationship so I suggest you just leave it alone. I agree with the other posters, it really shouldn't matter.

[KingZ]

Yeah, have sex with him. If he comes in <30 seconds, you know he was a virgin.

[ashley89]

why don't you trust him? I don't think he would lie about being a virgin... if anything, most guys would lie and say that they weren't virgins when they really were

[HeartIsAching]

Yeah, have sex with him. If he comes in <30 seconds, you know he was a virgin.

But then he won't be a virgin.

[noerrorsfound]

I don't think it's hard to believe. Unless he's given you some reason to suspect dishonesty, just trust what he says. You probably wouldn't like it if he was suspicious of you for the same reason.

[johnfisher]

I disagree with the other posters, I'm religious, I think viriginity is very important and a man and woman should maintain it till they are married, but I realise in this day and age most people don't even see the point of a marriage, which is kind of sad.

So find out if he is or not, if he isn't and you are, then ditch him and find someone who actually is a virgin.

[xxazurexx]

Yeah, have sex with him. If he comes in <30 seconds, you know he was a virgin.

So not true, lol

I had a one take 3 seconds...he wasn't a virgin.

I reckon you would be able to tell and from his first supposed performance perhaps?

Inexperienced is often clumsy...

An 'experienced' guy knows what he's doing.

[the_robot]

I had a one take 3 seconds...he wasn't a virgin.

3 seconds? Is that even enough to... put it in? damn.

[xxazurexx]

3 seconds? Is that even enough to... put it in? damn.

To only just get it in and then 'oooops'.

What a let down

[the_robot]

To only just get it in and then 'oooops'.

That has to be traumatic for the guy..

[xxazurexx]

That has to be traumatic for the guy..

He'd warned me beforehand....didn't think it would over that quick though.

It didn't seem to bother him but he probably sensed I wasn't happy. But I didn't make a deal of it or ever brought it up.

[qwertz]

So not true, lol

I had a one take 3 seconds...he wasn't a virgin.

I reckon you would be able to tell and from his first supposed performance perhaps?

Inexperienced is often clumsy...

An 'experienced' guy knows what he's doing.

Haha, my bf did that once...luckily it was a one off but i still rib him about it now!