Hi i'm a guy and I kind'a need to know how women think about my situation.
Okay, here's the case, I have this girl and we've known each other for years.
I kind of, courting her to be my girlfriend, but in the same setting, we're in a "mutual understanding" stage.
Basically, we like each other, without the commitment.
She even calls me happiness (in her facebook posts,lol), and i'm pretty sure she likes me a lot.
Her co-workers notice the special kind of glow she have, which again im sure, because of me. (confident huh? )
So, everything is so good between us, but she's just waiting for the right moment to make me her bf. (That's her thing.)
We're sweet and everything. I could feel that maybe she's inlove with me. Everything's fine between us.
BUT, she has this biggest crush on an officemate. and we've been honest to each other about everything. She even told me that she's really interested about her officemate and she feels butterflies in her stomach when talking to him.
Sucks for me, but it's no big deal to me. I told her to carry on. I wouldn't mind. Because that's how confident I am in what we have.
(Of course, i have a strong basis on this confidence i'm feeling. I could really tell she likes me a lot because I know her)
We've been very fine for a month or more. THEN, all of a sudden, she texted me, saying, "I'm sorry, there's something wrong with me. I'm sorry. really i'm sorry. But Ive fallen for someone else." etc.
She fell inlove with the guy! and she's asking me to meet her to explain her feelings. i didn't reply yet.
It's like yesterday, we're so into each other, then the next, she fell in love with someone else, what the F is that????
Could somebody explain this to me please? and do i have to meet her? I don't think it'll change what's happening right now.