Why did this happen?

[grega]

Why would a single woman talk for 7 months to a man over e-mail, messaging, give him her phone number, talk to him over phone and also tell him what she's doing, where she's going with her girlfriends? Laugh at his jokes, tease him, allow him to tell her sweet names, allow him to stroke her arm,kiss her, kiss him back, touch her everywhere, go out with him 5 times, look at him like he's the only one in the world........

Then after a week of normal conversation and planing next date she tells him that she has NO FEELINGS for him, and wishes she would fall in love with him. And that after the date where first kiss happened.

Is it possible that she is afraid of relationship?
She's been cheated after 9 years of relationship.

Should I stop all communication with her? For how long? how do I get her back?
She said that we can stay in contact.

[MerryH]

Sometimes people's feelings just change. It's most likely not just that she's afraid of a relationship. She wouldn't have told you she has "NO FEELINGS" for you if she had any desire to be with you. She just doesn't like you romantically. You can't get her back because there's nothing there anymore. You can't force her to like you. It would be best if you stopped all communication with her. You don't seem like you could settle for only being her true friend and realizing that it's never going to be more so you don't ever try.

[MerryH]

people's feelings just change. It's most likely not just that she's afraid of a relationship.

Wise words.