"And what's the deal with phones?"

[pianoplayer]

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Hey... yeah I like seinfeld (the title message)

Anyway... I have a simple question, and I'm open to ideas...

Boy meets girl... girl falls in love with boy... boy then falls in love with girl... boy calls girl and leaves a message saying "hi this is (boy) could you give me a call?)... she gets the message... but never calls him... now, WHY, I ask?

Could she be nervious?

I like using "scenarios"

thank you

[ka_xx]

How would I know why? You didnt even tell how long its been since she hasn't called back. Has it been two hours? Two weeks? What? How long have you "been in love" with her. Has she told you she loves you? Add some more info..then I'll help.

[KirstyM]

Maybe she's not interested.

[Screenplay]

Yeah, some frame of time reference is required, depends on how busy she is and how long its been. If it helps any I know the situation as Im in the same boat now, but ive come to find out its more of a test than anything. Other than that its hard to say, like Ka_xx said if its only been a short time frame its nothing to get bent out of shape over.

[pianoplayer]

How would I know why? You didnt even tell how long its been since she hasn't called back. Has it been two hours? Two weeks? What? How long have you "been in love" with her. Has she told you she loves you? Add some more info..then I'll help.

actually... I was asking this in general... im not saying the story was for real... What I'm asking is, in any case, would any normal girl not call a guy back that she likes becuase she's shy? because the guy was the one s who origanily called her, so she wouldnt feel "funny"
so this could relate to any situation... would a girl avoid hanging out with a guy that she likes cuz shes shy, even if he was the one to ask her?

[pianoplayer]

and keep in mind this didnt happen, im just trying to figure out the "legistics" of it or whatever... focus on the concept.. not the situation

[pianoplayer]

ok well time wise in the scenario.. lets say 3 days, it that were the case

[KirstyM]

Ever occur to you to check out the rules around here?

3 days isnt very long, though if this is not real, as you keep stressing, what is the point in us giving advice? You're much more likely to get the answers you're looking for if you actually explain a situation properly.

And yes it is perfectly possible that she may not have called yet because she is shy.

[pianoplayer]

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actually i think i figured it out today.... but thank you for the tips.

[zas]

girls wont call back either because they are busy, not interested, or they are testing to see if you will call again. we do like the chase u know

[Junket]

Yeah, what's with girls and doin' that crap, always beating around the bush, can never come up with a straight answer. Bunch of pussies if you ask me...

[chelsee]

if i called a guy and he didn't call me back I would keep calling and calling until he snaps.

[Peculiar]

What if her answering machine was broken? Or if her dad fixed her up with a l33t answering machine for her birthday, but her birthday is 4 months ahead, so she doesn't even know about it? Or if her goldfish ate her cellphone!

[pianoplayer]

whats an l33t asn. mach?

[zas]

hahaha you men cant say you would treat a girl well if she phoned you all the time, showed her affection constantly,etc etc. you're more likely to lust after something you feel you can't have or are having difficulty getting, i.e the reason why we girls do this, tis never a good idea to chase a bloke cos they always end up treating you like shite