who do you think is better off, the person who is dumped, or the one who dumps?

[ashley89]

I am a guy who has been dumped for no reason (or just a silly one). And i have the view that if a person is dumped by someone whom he loved truly and deeply then there is no option left for them other than ending their life. I am also dumped by my GF and living with with a dead heart!!!!!!!

um, ending your life over a break up is definitely not the only option left. sure, it hurts like hell and you feel terribly depressed, but it is definitely not worth dying over. you might need to seek some professional help ASAP

[Starry Night]

The dumper is better off emotionally...but the dumpee can actually learn and grow.