I wanna know where it is that you guys who've got boyfriends/girlfriends met? How do I get a guy to approach me exactly? I'm a 19 year old girl . I'm shy for one thing and it's gotten to the point where if a guy does approach me I'll feel like he's feeling forced toask me out cause of the way I carry myself. Please guys--- I am not a troll and your advice helps tremendously. I'm in the process of getting mental help but I need advice on dating so I won't be lonely forever.