Let me fill you in on the main details first..
I'm a 17 year old guy and my girlfriend is 14, yes there's a noticeable age difference but she's very mature for her age and at heart we're the same and that's what matters in my opinion. We've been together for quite a while now and are very serious about staying together and making our relationship last as if such a thing as a soulmate exists, she's it.
So the problem we have is her mother.. Her mother seems to hate me for no good reason. During our whole time together, I've only seen her mother 3 times briefly and that was at the beginning of our time together. During those times she made no effort to talk to me. I have been nothing but polite and respectful to both her and her daughter and yet she seems to have a bad idea of me.
Now, my girlfriend isn't allowed to meet up with me and I'm not allowed to go and see her either. We have to meet behind her mothers back.. I've suggested to my girlfriend about going and trying talk to her mother properly so she could see I'm not a bad guy but my girlfriend thinks her mum would possibly HIT me. I've been told stories of how she hits her daughter, cusses her out.. Drinks & takes drugs. Her mother needs help but nobody will make her realise it.. And it's slowly hurting our relationship as we can hardly see eachother.
Please, if anybody can offer some advice.. I would be very thankful, I don't want to lose this girl.